You know how to manage multi-dog conflict. Baby gates. Separate walks. Separate feeding spots. Separate zones of the home. Sometimes separate living areas entirely.
But the hypervigilance never leaves. In your home. In your clients’ homes. In the dogs. Everyone is always on. Everyone is always bracing.
And you know this asks too much. You just have not been shown another way yet.
This was me till I met Rocky and Blacky.
When I met Rocky and Blacky
Watching them navigate conflict cracked open every story I had been carrying about dogs. My mind was already moving through the usual moves — create distance, intervene, do something — when Blacky simply got up and walked away after hearing Rocky growl from a distance. No explosion. No face-off. No intervention from me. Just two dogs, sorting it out
That moment changed what I thought conflict was.
Does conflict even need solving?
What mainstream training repeatedly assumes that dogs cannot navigate tension without us. And so every tool you've been handed - manage, avoid, desensitise - is designed to fix the conflict.
But when you start looking at free-living dogs, you see a different story. They negotiate, state limits, read each other. Conflict isn't breakdown - it's communication.
Today, when I'm around dogs who growl at each other, I watch. I stay present. I step in only if I'm actually needed. Because conflict isn't always a problem to solve - sometimes it's a conversation already in progress that doesn't need you.
Introducing
Fight or Flow
A four-month learning container where we turn to free-living dogs as guides. We learn what tension, repair, and coexistence actually look like — the things mainstream dog education was never built to teach.
Cohort start date: 24th July 2026
About Fight or Flow:
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2 x 90 mins calls every month
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This is the heart of the container. where we think together, look closely, and build a body of knowledge shaped by dogs rather than by dog training industry defaults.
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A private Telegram group
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Where reflections, observations, questions, and ongoing inquiry keep the work alive between sessions. Participants are expected to engage there, bring their thinking into the room, and stay in conversation with the material.
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The Learning Journey
The 4W Method™:
Wander, Wonder, Weave, and Witness.
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We begin with Wander, that is, non-judgmental observation.
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Wonder is the component that brings in academic and cultural inquiry.
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Weave is collective learning, where meaning is made in dialogue.
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Witness is reflexivity, where we turn inward and examine what shapes how we see.
Together, these practices create a way of knowing that is rigorous, embodied, decolonial, and community-held — not just something to learn, but something to inhabit.
The Learning Arc
Month 1 gives participants the language to see conflict as part of a dog’s social life, not as an exception to it.
Month 2 brings history, context, and social learning into view. Conflict cannot be read well without understanding what each dog has learned, what they have missed out on, and what their social world has made possible or impossible. Dogs arrive into encounters shaped by all of that.
Month 3 creates room to learn from what dogs are already doing. It builds trust in canine social capacity by paying attention to how much dogs can handle without us stepping in. That matters because tension is often where dogs are communicating most clearly.
Month 4 turns attention to the relational deposits that make repair possible. Conflict leaves something behind: evidence, memory, possibility. Those deposits are what make later conflicts more workable and repair more real.
By the end of this container,
conflict starts looking different.
1. You stop seeing conflict as a problem to solve and start seeing it as the everyday grammar of social life — the way dogs negotiate, cooperate, and evolve their relationships.
2. You learn to read dog-dog interactions with greater nuance, your definition of "resolution" expands beyond “no conflict = peace”, and your understanding of social dynamics grows richer — including what you learn directly from observing free-living dogs.
3. You understand your own role differently — not as the one who controls or breaks up conflict, but as someone who can hold space, observe, and trust the dog and guide your clients in doing the same.
4. You build a richer knowledge of dogs’ social intelligence, their social skills, and the wisdom they show when they are allowed to work things through.
About Me.
Hi, I’m Sowjanya
I came to my understanding of conflict in dogs through living with dogs, caring for free-living dogs, and working through the limits of the frameworks I had been taught.
My own dogs, Sammy and Zoey, first showed me that conflict in a multi-dog household is more layered than management plans can explain. Later, Blacky and Rocky — two free-living dogs I cared for in my neighbourhood — changed the way I saw conflict entirely. One moment, when I had braced myself to interrupt, simply resolved through the dogs’ own negotiation.
Since then, I have kept learning from free-living dogs like Lady and Laddoo, and from the conflict cases I have worked on in companion dog settings. Over and over, I have seen that management can create safety, but it does not tell the full story of what conflict is doing in dogs’ social lives.
I am a certified canine behaviour consultant and applied ethologist, and my work has helped me build the 4W Method™ — field observation, academic inquiry, collective learning, and reflexivity. I use it to create a body of knowledge about dogs that is rigorous, embodied, and grounded in what dogs themselves reveal.
This container comes from years of watching dogs, learning from dogs, and refusing to settle for a thin understanding of conflict.
This is for you if...
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You recognise that your current knowledge of conflict was built inside pet dog culture — and you are deeply curious about how free-living dogs navigate and resolve it on their own terms
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You are frustrated and bored with the same management-focused conversation — and ready for a space that fundamentally shifts your perspective, not just refines your protocols
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You are ready to question and unlearn what you already know — and integrate a way of working that is genuinely dog-centric
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You have felt the gap between what you currently understand about conflict and the depth of knowledge that free-living dogs are still waiting to teach you
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You encounter and work with humans and dogs experiencing conflict — and keep wondering how else you can show up for these dogs and the humans who love them
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You want to build a body of knowledge that comes directly from dogs.
Who this is NOT for
This is not a certification track, a quick fix, or a passive learning space. It should not be mistaken for a neat checklist, a mainstream dog discourse refresher, or a management-only framework with a new name.
With that in mind, this may not be the right fit for you if:
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You are looking for course hours, certification credits, or something to add to a portfolio.
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You do not regard free-living dogs as a serious source of knowledge, or you can only see them as interesting but irrelevant to companion-dog life
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You want passive learning and do not want to actively participate in the thinking, reflection, and reworking of what you already know
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You want prescriptive frameworks, one-size-fits-all methods, or a neat operational checklist for conflict.
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You are unwilling to question your assumptions, sit with reflexivity, and unlearn what you already know
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You are content to stay inside management-only approaches to conflict and do not want to move beyond them.
Your Investment
Most people who come into this work have already spent a long time carrying the weight of conflict.
They have used gates, routines, separation, supervision, management plans, and careful choreography. They have tried to keep everyone safe. They have tried to stay calm. They have done their best with the tools they were given.
And still, something in them knows there is more to understand.
Fight or Flow is where that understanding begins to expand.
Over four months, you build a different relationship with conflict. You begin to notice history, context, negotiation, and repair. You start trusting dogs more, not less.
What you're stepping into
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8 live 90-minute calls across four months
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A private Telegram group for ongoing reflection, observation, and discussion
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A learning space shaped by the 4W Method™
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A body of knowledge built from free-living dogs, social life, and close observation
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A small intimate cohort of 7 people
Investment
Till 10th July
One time: $1,000 / ₹87,000
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Monthly: $250 / ₹21750
After 10th July
One time: $1,600 / ₹1,24,000
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Monthly: $400 / ₹31000
There are 7 spots in this founding cohort.
If finances are the only barrier, mention it in your application, and we can talk about it.
Conflict has been taught to us as something to get rid of, contain, or fear.
But dogs keep showing us that it is also one of the places where social life becomes visible — where history, skill, negotiation, repair, and relationship all come into view.
This container is for the dog people who are ready to look more closely. To stay with what dogs are doing. To let free-living dogs expand what we think we know. To build a body of knowledge that is more honest, more nuanced, and more alive than the one we have been given by the mainstream pet dog culture.
If that is the work you want to do, this is your room.
FAQ
Who is Fight or Flow for? This container is for dog people who want a deeper way of understanding conflict — one that goes beyond management, containment, and quick fixes. It is for people who are ready to learn from dogs themselves, and to let that learning change how they see conflict and the full social life of dogs.
What if I don’t have access to free-living dogs? That is completely okay. Free-living dogs will be our primary source of learning, and I will bring documented field observations into the container. But you do not need direct access to free-living dogs to take part. We will also learn from companion dogs in safe, observable settings, because the questions we are exploring can be seen across contexts.
I’m not a dog professional and I’m not aspiring to be one. Is this for me? Yes, if you are here for depth, curiosity, and serious inquiry. This is not only for professionals. It is for anyone who wants to understand dogs more clearly and think more carefully about what conflict is doing in their social lives. However, if you are looking for a solution to an urgent case in your own life, this is not the space.
Will the learning apply to companion dogs? Yes. That is part of the point. What we learn from free-living dogs helps us see companion dogs with greater nuance, especially around tension, negotiation, repair, and social capacity. We will also be honest about where the learning translates directly and where it needs to be held with care and discernment. We also might need to sit with discomfort in these conversations and be ready to reflect on the lives of dogs in a human-centered world. If you are not yet ready for this, it may not be the right time.
How is this different from other courses on conflict in dogs? Most courses are built to help you manage conflict or replace conflict more effectively. Fight or Flow asks a different question: what is conflict actually doing in dogs’ social lives? This is not a protocol-driven course or a quick fix. It is a space for building a more nuanced, dog-centred body of knowledge through observation, inquiry, and collective thinking.
Will I need to be academically inclined? No. You do not need a research background, and you do not need to feel fluent in academic language. The theoretical material will be made accessible and woven into the container in a way that supports the work rather than overwhelming it. What matters most is curiosity, openness, and a willingness to think deeply.
Do I need prior experience with free-living dogs? No. You do not need previous experience to join. What matters is that you are open to free-living dogs as a serious source of knowledge, and willing to let that perspective shape your understanding.
I already know a lot about dog behaviour. Will this feel too basic? No. This is not a foundations course. It is a reorientation. The work will ask you to revisit what you know, where it came from, and what it may have left out. I am also willing to bet that most of what you know has not explored conflict resolution by dogs and the relational and social skills they bring to their interactions, including conflict.
What does a typical session look like? Each live call is a thinking and enquiry space. We bring observations, questions, and readings into the room and work with them together through the 4W Method. The emphasis is on close attention, dialogue, and building meaning in community.
What is the Telegram group for? The Telegram group keeps the container alive between calls. It is where you share reflections, observations, and questions, and where the learning continues in conversation. This is an active space, not a passive broadcast channel.
Will I get a certificate? No. This is not a certification track. It is a learning container built around inquiry, observation, and collective sense-making. It is also built to offer an alternative knowledge space outside of formal academia (my act of decolonizing education in this industry)
Is this self-paced? No. Fight or Flow is a live, cohort-based experience. The learning depends on participants thinking together across the four months.
Will this help me handle conflict cases in practice? Yes, but not as a set of step-by-step instructions. You will leave with a more nuanced understanding of conflict resolution, a wider lens, and a deeper trust in what dogs can do.
What if I’m not sure I’m ready? That is exactly what the application process is for. If something feels uncertain, name it honestly there. Fit matters, and the application helps us assess that together.
What is the refund policy? There is no refund once the payment has been initiated. If you have a concern before joining, raise it in the application so it can be considered in context.
What if finances are the only barrier? Mention it in your application. We can talk about it.
What if I have more questions? Write an email to dogpawmise@gmail.com and I will respond